This past summer, I had what I think of as a “light bulb” moment—a time when the right set of circumstances and events all come together to help me solve a problem that had been rooting around in the back of my head for years. The lead up to this moment started when two women friends of mine (thank you Kenie and Laura) took me out bar hopping in downtown Raleigh. I know I am showing my age here, but I think the last time I had done that was in the mid-1980’s when going “dow